Fangirl and Thrifty Geek's Epic Return to Asheville!

 Hello friends,

So Saturday your favorite Everyday Heroes* returned to our beloved Asheville since Tropical Storm Helene, aka the worst visitor to WNC ever! ><  

Since it was Doctor Who Day, I wanted to put a little Doctor in my outfit:

I wore a dark blue shirt and the over shirt I've been using mainly for my 11th Doctor Costume since 2019. I had my Doctor Who pins, which I'm noticing are all sorts of crooked. Threw on a combination of blue and golden eye shadow, and lastly this resin necklace Fangirl made that I got for my Bad Wolf Birthday years ago.

When I got it since I was in a Doctor Who mind mode, and seeing this I thought Fangirl had made my Whovian Butt a Doctor Themed necklace, I mean come on a blue box with two hearts on it... What else would it be. I found a few years this was just a random design she came up with. Well too bad I have declared it my Doctor Who necklace. Lastly I slipped my smallest sonic the 13th Doctors in my pocket. Now that I was Whovianed out I was ready to journey forth.

The roads were crowded due to it being Saturday, people probably shopping for the holidays, and visitors excited as we were to visit the city again. Yes I said city, I hear so many many visitors call it a small town. It is not. You want North Carolina small towns go to places like Canton, Clyde, Waynesville in Haywood, or Hot Springs in Madison County. Yeah that is a tiny Main Street in Hot Springs. Fun to visit year ago though. OK now that I'm had my light hearted and hopefully only with a smidge of bite rant, let's continue with our story.

Our first stop was Itto's Ramon Bar and Tapas in West Asheville. We were greeted by a waiter I'd never seen before. He went crazy for my necklace and Fangirl's winter wrap. He proclaimed us stylish, which I don't think is a term I have ever heard before in reference to myself.  I loved this guy! they were so full of energy, he made sure we were taken care of. Fangirl even gave him info on resin work. We think he may have been just starting here cause while he remembered the water they always give you, he forgot to ask the drink order, but he was so charismatic I was okay with it.  We had our usual appetizers of Takoyaki Balls, then I had one of my usuals Itto Classic Ramen and Fangirl tried for the first time Itto Miso Ramen. It was awesome as always, but Fangirl's left her lips numb. So she got some vanilla Japanese Ice Cream to counteract it.

With my hands smelling like my lunch we went down the street to Morgan's Comics. Morgan's boasts the title as the first female owned Comic Shop in Western North Carolina. Her storefront also now boasts a mural of Morgan's Superhero self.

Now we haven't actually been to the store since Free Comic Book Day in May. We haven't seen Morgan since at the Spring WNC  Comic Con, which I realized I never posted about on here. I chatted at length with Morgan about our Storm experiences and purchased a holiday present. 

 

After Morgan's we headed toward the mall, which we saw in the parking lot it was so packed we're like nope after we couldn't find a space, so we headed to Five Below. While waiting to turn in we saw the now closed section of the road as you go toward the river:

Today was my first time seeing Asheville's devastation in person. It made me feel the same as seeing our home county's for the first time.

At Five Below I proceeded to try to knock a hole in my holiday shopping, I have never spent that much there ever. Now one of the items was a Luffytaro keychain from One Piece for Fangirl who loves the series. I was hoping she didn't have it. Well get out to the car only to have Fangirl show me the Luffytaro she'd purchased, then she said she'd found out when she got to the car she had that already. So while we were still there I returned them, and my frustration turned to humor over the situation. 

After that we went to Pop on Merriman Avenue for Bubble tea. Fangirl decided to sit in the car while I got our drinks. There was a birthday party going on. I bought a couple bolba tea charms one for Fangirl and I.

I got my usual black milk tea with strawberry and mango popping pearls.

 

 

 Fangirl got a Universal Love it had cute hearts and stars in it! Although the stars were murder on the straw.

As we headed back toward West Asheville we started reminiscing about Fangirl's Dad CD who like my Pop had passed last year. I asked her if she had anything of her Dad, she replied. "Dad". I forgot she has some of his ashes. We just started laughing.

We went to the Goodwill Outlet, my fav part of Goodwill. I saw some interesting sites like The Cow Wedding Tragedy: 

I got a Buccee's Bag full of things for like $5 and the greatest score was this still wrapped New Phone, Who Dis? game. At Kohl's it would have cost $19.99, a great Thrifty Geek find!

After this I stopped by Burger King so I can surprise my Mom with a large order of fries to make her smile. The 23rd was also the one year anniversary of our final Thanksgiving with Pop, a lot of bad memories from a year ago have been showing up in the last few weeks.

After that we made the journey home. Yeah crap ending, but not much happened. 

I hope you have a good week be sure to check out my Instagram video of the day, and hopefully I'll see you soon. God Bless!

                                                                                            *Thrifty Geek*

* Sorry it's a play on this song I've recently discovered. I also just discovered how awesome Defying Gravity is!

Nerdy Advice in the Dark Timeline

 

Nerdy Advice in the Dark Timeline

We have been knocked down

The future murky 

Fear has gripped our hearts

What will we do now?

Is the question that is cried…

Here is the answer my friends

You will become the Links, the Wonder Women, the Katniss Everdeens

You’ll be Avengers, the Rebel Alliance, The Fellowship of the Ring

You’ll take the lessons you’ve ingested all your lives

And be the real life heroes

The lights in the storm 

Defenders of Freedoms

Who will not allow our hard earned rights go without a fight

So grab your morphers, your pens, and pixelated torches

Get the adventuring party ready

For the BBEG is here

So pick yourselves up

Don your armor

We got work to do

Live Long and Prosper my friends 

Where Have I Been- The Crap That Was 2023

 Hello Friends,

It's been a minute. From your guys perspective I haven't posted since March of last year. In my draft I have a few drafts dating around October last year. So your probably thinking what happened? 2023 happened the effects of which are still affecting me this year. 

Seriously, this was be heading into 2024.

  So beginning of that year I had a slight insomnia spell... upside I think during this time I finished campaign 2 of Critical Role. Then my elder dog Ranger passed. That was anxiety inducing. Then in April Fangirl and me were gonna go see the Dungeons and Dragons: Honor Among Thieves movie one day, but had to postpone cause my insomnia came back to the point I was up almost four whole days till I just had to go to the hospital. Then Fangirl and I saw the movie and I learned her Dad had died.

The morning of Captain's 39th Birthday the ambulance went up to my grandparents. This had been happening since a few days before Thanksgiving 2022, because my Grandpa started passing out, most likely due to his heart valve issue, but sadly this was not the case, my Grandpa had died in his sleep.

I can't complain he lived to be 88, and compare to the luck I had with my other two Grandads, I got lucky to have him in my life till I was 39. Then my grandpa's brother passed in November of that year, plus a second cousin I never met.  

In October my Dad started sleeping a lot, we thought it was a reaction to the Iron Pills the Doctor gave him, cause he was "anemic", then in November my Dad started having fever and staggering, then the Monday before Thanksgiving he had his second fall, so we called the ambulance come take him to the hospital. A few hours later  we learned he was not anemic, nor had a kidney infection as my Mom's kidney doctor believed, it was a rare type of kidney cancer. My father would lose his battle thirteen days later on December 3rd. 

This was a devastating blow to our already grieving family. We are in the 11th Month since his passing. We're fixing to have our first Thanksgiving without him. The last of our first holidays with out him.

2024 has brought more deaths, my Grandpa's third cousin and sister-in-law, and three friends of the family. 

In September Western North Carolina was visited by the worst visitor Helene, we fared pretty well, but the storm was scary to listen to. I mean we've had tropical storms before, but still scary. Our community had damage I've only seen on TV.

Monday Nov 4th my cat accidentally scratched my face bad and now our lovely election where we've been condemned to the 9 circles of hell..... 2025 may not be so hot either.

So yeah this is why I haven't posted in forever it's been crap for the last couple years!

Hopefully, not promising, gonna try to post more here. Well I'm gonna hone my sword skills to prepare for our dystopian future. Hope all is well everyone, be strong, and have a Magical Whimsical Day!

Your nerd.

*Thrifty Geek*